Struck off Strength (SOS)
Jaques Adams-Robenhymer CMR |
Last updated: May 22nd, 2024
Jaques Adams-Robenhymer (10795) Jacques était natif d’Amos en Abitibi et, dès l’âge de 13 ans, faisait partie des cadets de l’armée. Il envisageait dès lors aller au CMR. Il a gradué en 1976 au CMR avec spécialité Physiques. Il a d’abord été affecté comme Ingénieur de systèmes informatiques au QGDN puis a été muté à la SFC Senneterre. De 1981 à 1983, il a complété des études graduées en génie informatique au RMC et y est devenu professeur-assistant en GI. Il s’est retiré des FAC en 1990. Il a été de passage au Ministère des transports. De 1995 à 2000, il a été de retour au QGDN comme aviseur technique sénior (civil) et de 2004 à 2007, il a assumé les fonctions de Directeur de la sécurité des TI du Ministère des travaux publics et des services gouvernementaux. En 2008, il a pris sa retraite définitive. Il s’est alors adonné au piano, à la lecture sur la physique, l’histoire des idées et la philosophie. Il apprenait aussi l’allemand pour ultimement lire Einstein, Kant et Schopenhauer dans leur langue, toujours avide de savoir. Lui et son épouse Jocelyne ont eu 2 fils, André et Paul, et ils sont les grands-parents de trois petits-enfants: Caleb, Hakim et Félix. Jacques nous a quitté subitement le 26 octobre 2021 des suites d’une crise cardiaque, quelques semaines à peine après avoir participé aux retrouvailles de notre classe à Québec avec Jocelyne.
Jacques was born in Amos in Abitibi and at the age of 13 he was a member of the
Army Cadets. He then planned to go to RMC. He graduated in 1976 at RMC with a
specialty in Physics. He was first posted as a Computer Systems Engineer at NDHQ
and then transferred to CFS Senneterre. From 1981 to 1983, he completed graduate
studies in Computer Engineering at RMC and became an Assistant Professor in IM.
He retired from the CAF in 1990. He then joined the Department of
Transportation. From 1995 to 2000 he returned to NDHQ as a Senior Technical
Advisor (Civilian) and from 2004 to 2007, he assumed the duties of Director of
IT Security for the Department of Public Works and Government Services. In 2008,
he retired permanently. He then enjoyed playing the piano, reading on Physics,
the history of ideas and on Philosophy. He was also learning German to
ultimately read Einstein, Kant and Schopenhauer in their language, always eager
to discover new things. He and his wife Jocelyne had two sons, André and Paul,
and are the grandparents of three grandchildren: Caleb, Hakim and Felix. Jacques
left us suddenly on October 26, 2021 after a heart attack, only a few weeks
after having participated in our class reunion in Quebec City with Jocelyne.
François Alarie
(10796) François
était définitivement un bon vivant, avec une personnalité extrêmement amicale,
toujours de bonne humeur, toujours positif, toujours prêt à aider. Persévérant,
déterminé, capable de fixer et d’atteindre ses objectifs personnels,
professionnels et familiaux, mais en gardant toujours un peu de place pour faire
la fête et avoir du plaisir. Vraiment un bon gars qui est parti beaucoup trop
vite, François personnifiait parfaitement la devise: ‘Vérité Devoir Vaillance’.
Décédé le 17 juin 1998, d’un infarctus foudroyant alors qu’il était en Floride
travaillant pour CGI. Il s’est simplement arrêté de parler, aucun signe
précurseur, juste un mauvais destin.
Les funérailles ont eu lieu à Montréal. A. Corriveau, A. Arès, D. Messier, J.
Adams-Robenhymer et M. Whittingham ont assistés. Après la cérémonie proprement
dite, tous étaient conviés à un restaurant. Christiane et ses deux garçons nous
rappelaient sans cesse que c’était le souhait de François qu’on se commémore les
bons moments passés en sa compagnie, et qu’on laisse la tristesse de côté. On
reconnaît facilement la façon qu’il avait de nous rassembler.
Il y a des deuils qui ne sont jamais vraiment consommés, et la perte de ce grand
ami figure parmi ceux-là. Pour reprendre les mots d’Anatole France, son décès
nous «... a gâté l’univers.».
Préparé par: Christiane Legault et Daniel Messier. Contributeurs: Alain
Corriveau, Alain Desroches, Jacques Adams-Robenhymer, Jean-Luc Desgroseilliers,
et Michel Dagenais.
Full Obituary here
Richart Wayne Russell Baccari
(M230)
January 7, 1947 to February 3, 2018.
Richard (71 years old) passed away peacefully February 3, 2018 surrounded by his
family. He is survived by his loving wife Judith Easton and sons Mathew Easton
Baccari (Chelsea), Richard Todd Baccari (Marina) and Trevor Baccari (Rochelle).
He also leaves three beautiful grandchildren Samantha, Alexander and Kaden
(Trevor’s children). He was a loving uncle to Natalyee, Joshua, Ashlee, Sara,
Oscar, Chloe, Johnathan, Garrett, Crystallee, Jacqueline, Lori-Ann, Jason, Jerry
Jr. and Andrew. Fondly missed by his siblings Jerald (Doris) and Lauretta.
Wonderful brother-in-law to Barbara and Sylvia. Predeceased by his parents
Marjory Mayotte and Baptiste Baccari and his sister Roseanne Turgeon. Not only
was Richard a loving family member, but he was also a friend to all.
Richard entered the military as a private and became one of the first to
graduate from the UTPM program at the Royal Military College in Kingston. After
a 25-year military career, he became the head of transportation for the 1988 G8
Economic Summit in Toronto, the Francophone Summit in Quebec City and the
Commonwealth Summit in Vancouver. He then formed Baccari Property Management
Company in Kingston and ran it for 25 years. Richard was a member of St. Andrews
by the Lake United Church and on the board of St. Mary’s Hospital.
He was the president of the Kingston Rotary Club, receiving the Paul Harris
Fellow Award. After retirement, Judith and Richard spent 14 winters at their
golf community condo in Fort Myers, Florida where Richard happily golfed to his
heart’s content. While there, his contributions continued as he organized the
building of the new club house for their Hideaway Golf Community in Florida.
Judith and Richard travelled extensively during their 40 years together. In
Kingston he was a long standing member of the Cataraqui Golf and Country Club.
Many of the members being close friends of Richard’s and a great support to
Judith during this difficult period. The family would like to thank the staff of
the Community Care Association which allowed Richard to spend 2 of his last
weeks in the comfort of his home. They also wish to thank the supportive staff
of the Providence Care Centre, Heritage Wing.
A Celebration of Life was held at the GORDON F. TOMPKINS FUNERAL HOME Township
Chapel at 435 Davis Drive on Saturday February 10, 2018 from 2-4 p.m.
David Grant Bayne July 8, 1945 – July 31, 2014) RCN, LCdr (Ret), passed away peacefully surrounded by his family at Hospice Wellington after a very brief illness. Family meant everything to Dave and there is nothing he wouldn’t do for those he loved. He is survived by his loving wife of 48 years, Elizabeth (Liz) Bayne and his wonderful children Michelle Karker (Michael) and Peter Bayne (Jennifer). He was a proud Grandpa to Austin, Riley and Rachael Karker and Cate and Amanda Bayne and a devoted son of Francis (Frank) Bayne of Guelph, ON and Gladys Bayne of Barrie, ON. David was a brother, an uncle and a friend to many throughout this wide world of ours.
Dave served Canada as a member of the Royal Canadian Navy for 25 years first as a MARS officer then as a Pilot. He was a graduate of VENTURE (Naval Officer Training Centre (1965) and the Royal Military College of Canada (RMC) (1976). Dave’s career has spanned many facets of military and commercial aviation and he was most recently Director of Flight Operations for George Weston Limited. He was fortunate to have had a vocation which he loved and never considered to be work. Dave always embraced adventure and he and Liz travelled extensively throughout this amazing world of ours. Their favourite place was always "the Cottage" at Chance Harbour, Nova Scotia where family and friends would meet and celebrate being together. Dave was a respected leader and mentor to many within the military and aviation industry. His ability to recognize the capabilities and talents of individuals was remarkable. He was a loyal friend and colleague who considered others before himself. Dave had a great life but had so many plans for the future. The family is devastated that this disease brought down such a strong man, a loving man, a man who seemed at times larger than life, in such a short period of time.
Anthony Bowie (10915) Drowned in Navy Bay in September 1972 during our Recruit Obstacle Course. A tribute to our classmate was written by Brian Kroeker after the tragic event.
Dear Tony:
Tony, memories of all the too brief moments of life we shared with you still linger fresh in our minds. They always will. Some people think that men in the Armed Forces become accustomed to death or that they take it as part of their jobs. Don't believe them Tony. You yourself saw the buddy system in action during the brief span of time we were here. When we lost you, we lost a part of ourselves. A part that can never be replaced. We lost a smiling face in the midst of turmoil. We lost an example of spirit and determination to succeed.
Tony, you were on the verge of entering what could have been a very rewarding career. You're gone now and we'll have to carry on without you. We'll strive to do our best. I'm sure that's the way you would want it to be.
There's only one more thing I'd like to say to you Tony. Just before starting the obstacle course, we all heard you say that you were going to win. Thinking back to that fateful day, you must have won, Tony, because we all lost, we lost you.
Your Buddy,
Brian Kroeker
On behalf of the Cadet Wing
Dean
Brassington (10917) Dean Gareth Jerome Brassington, 65, suffered a heart
attack on Wednesday October 16th, and died on Saturday, October 19, 2019. He is
survived by his loving wife of 36 years, CAPT Charlene Brassington, MSC, USN,
(ret), his mother Joy Brassington, and his brother M Adrian Brassington of
Hamilton, Ontario. He was preceded in death by his father Donald J. Brassington.
Dean was born in Coventry, England, and immigrated with his parents to Stoney
Creek, Ontario, Canada, when he was 4 years old. He graduated from Saltfleet
High School and entered the Royal Military College of Canada in Kingston,
Ontario, where he was awarded a degree in Honors English and a commission as a
Naval Officer in the Canadian Forces. His postings included the First Canadian
Submarine Squadron, where he qualified as a diesel boat Submariner. He also had
an exchange posting with the U.S. Navy at Commander Ocean Systems Command in
Argentia, Newfoundland, and the Canadian Forces Maritime Warfare School in
Halifax, Nova Scotia. He retired from the Canadian Forces in 1985 and joined his
Navy wife in Norfolk, Virginia. He achieved a Master of Education degree from
Old Dominion University in 1996.
Dean had spent the last 30 years as a certified Financial Educator at various
Navy Fleet and Family Service Centers, where he collected many friends and
touched many lives. He enjoyed world travel and being at sea with the shipboard
Return and Reunion trips. Dean was very active in numerous professional groups,
especially serving as Secretary for the Financial Education Round Table of
Hampton Roads. He was a dedicated member of the American Legion Junius F. Lynch
Post No. 35 for over 30 years, adjutant for the Royal Canadian Legion, Lord
Louis Mountbatten, Earl of Burma Post 180 (U.S.A.) Virginia, and was a member
and boating safety instructor for the U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary Flotillas 54
and 57.
Dean was known to his friends and coworkers as a compassionate, generous, and
empathetic man ready to help anyone anytime. He loved living on the beach in
Cottage Line, and was the primary 'Food Giver Man' to numerous rescue cats.
Donations to Cat Rescue, Inc. 1917 Benefit Road, Chesapeake, VA 23322, or at
http://catrescueinc.com/, may be made in his honor. A celebration of his life
here and in Ontario, Canada, will be announced at a later date. In his last
selfless act, Dean saved lives as an organ donor. Dean's light, love, and
kindness will be profoundly missed.
Letter from Andre Langois:
Carleton Place, Ontario
22 October, 2019
It's a drab, wet, gloomy day here, making the atmosphere all the more sullen as
I contemplate the sudden loss of one of our RMC Class of 76's finest. I remember
an always well-dressed, well-mannered, ever-cheerful gentleman who would greet
everybody with a broad grin, a glint in his eye, and his head slightly cocked to
one side. Hail fellow, well met: to a tee.
I didn't know Dean very well during our short stay together at RMC, but I have a
special place in my memories for Dean during our time as junior naval officers
in Halifax, and especially with the Submarine Squadron. We were shipmates
onboard the submarine OKANAGAN during a highly eventful 1979 deployment to the
UK for workups, and a great port visit to London afterwards. Dean became
(in)famous for painting the sub's mascot (the pink panther) on the fin, and for
concocting a pink signature cocktail (secret recipe) to boot. We also spent two
excellent weeks of annual leave together in 1981 as crew mates on a 33ft yacht
from Southampton to Lisbon, braving quite a storm in the Bay of Biscay, and way
too much port wine in, where else, Porto. Dean was our assiduous galley honcho
at sea and charming social coordinator ashore, making the trip a most enjoyable
experience. Later, after Dean and Char departed for Norfolk, it didn't surprise
me in the least to learn that Dean took up financial counselling as a way to
assist naive but suddenly very rich sailors coming home from long deployments.
Caring for others is what Dean did best.
I am very sorry that my friend passed all too soon. He was a model of civility
and compassion much too rare in today's society. I am convinced that all his
classmates from RMC days, shipmates in the Canadian Navy, and indeed anybody who
has ever met and worked with Dean, would agree that he was a very special guy.
Dolphin 70a*, Deano! RIP
(* Your social event was first class. Thank you).
10850 Andre Langlois
Randy
Callan
(11053) CALLAN, Randall (Randy) William
LCol (Ret), CD, B.A., LL.B. We are heartbroken to announce Randy's passing in
Prince George, BC on November 26th, 2017. He is survived by the loves of his
life: his wife Patti, sons Joel, Spencer, and Casey, and sister Jill Callan. He
is also survived by sisters-in-law Dr. Aileen Wight-Felske (Dr. Lorry Felske),
Peggy Wight, and brother-in-law Dr. Jim Wight (Irena Streibl). Randy's greatest
passions in life were being there for his family, and service to his country.
Born in Portage La Prairie, Manitoba, on May 23rd, 1953, he completed both his
history BA and LLB at the University of Manitoba. Randy was active in the
Canadian Forces since 1972, first as a logistics officer, and then as a legal
officer. He served domestically and around the world in many different theatres
and capacities: Cyprus, Aviano, Afghanistan, Sudan, and two Olympic games. In
2012, Randy was sworn in as a Provincial Court Judge sitting in Prince George.
He was immensely respected, regarded, and enjoyed by his family and peers. His
real presence in a room, in both stature and personality, as well as his
welcoming nature and boisterous laugh will never be forgotten. His character was
as large as his frame and was equally unforgettable. He was always a great
friend, mentor, and inspiration to many. Randy always gave reasons to smile to
those in his company. He had many hobbies including reading history, scuba
diving, fitness (YMCA), novice fly-fishing and collecting and painting miniature
model soldiers. The warm love and great companionship that he shared with his
family, friends, and the world will be sorely missed. A service was held on
Saturday, December 2nd, 2017, at 3:00pm, at the First Baptist Church in Prince
George located at 483 Gillette Street. A celebration of Randy's life was held in Victoria for his many friends and colleagues on January 13th, 2018,
at the Union Club. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the BC Cancer
Foundation or to Soldier On.
Gerald D'Aoust (10819) Gérald, surnommé «Gerry», était originaire de Gatineau. Gerry n’est resté que pendant l’année préparatoire. Il a laissé que de bons souvenirs, spécialement à ses deux cochambreurs unilingues, Jean-Guy Mathieu et Ted Scott. Gerry était la courroie de communication entre Jean-Guy et Ted. Il leur a grandement facilité les choses pour les directives pendant la semaine uniquement en anglais ou celle en français. Il ne se prenait pas au sérieux et il aimait faire rire et détendre l’atmosphère. Sa présence était toujours amicale et chaleureuse. Il est décédé le 8 février 2014.
Gérald, nicknamed «Gerry», was originally from Gatineau. He only stayed for the
Prep year. He left only good memories, especially to his two unilingual
roommates, Jean-Guy Mathieu and Ted Scott. Gerry acted as the link between the
two roomates. He made it very easy for them to better understand instructions
during the week only in English or only in French. He didn't take himself too
seriously and loved to make people laugh and relax. His presence was always
friendly and warm.
He passed away on
February 8, 2014.
Rick Glen Dodson (11063) died on January 1st of 2013. He was living in Edmonton where he had remained since leaving the Army in the mid-90s after having been the Officer Commanding the CF Parachute Team (Skyhawks).
Rick started at Royal Roads in 1972 in 3 Squadron (Lasalle). He was always squared away militarily and had a fraction of the circles that many of us managed to collect. Nor was he intimidated by senior NCOs; this was evident when he reported one morning to Sgt. Buxton that the flight kettle (we used for making coffee/tea at night) was ‘N/S.’ After classes that afternoon he returned to report that a classmate had managed to repair the kettle so they didn’t need a new one. Sgt. Buxton informed him that he didn’t care; he had already received a replacement and needed a broken kettle. “So what did you do?” several of his fellow victim-rooks asked him when he was relaying the story to us, “I took him a broken kettle, of course.” Throughout his Military College time Rick gained an admirable reputation for integrity, reliability, sense of humour, and duty.
Between 2nd and 3rd year and 3rd and 4th years many of us had the opportunity to visit St. Thomas with Rick and meet Ruby and Hank, as well as Rick’s brother and sister. Summers, meanwhile, were spent in a decidedly un-picturesque part of the ‘picture province.’ On one memorable occasion, after three days crawling about in the wilds of Camp Gagetown, we proceeded back to the barracks to clean up. So caked in mud were we that most of us started to de-rig and drop kit outside the building. Not Rick. He just proceeded inside, in full kit; rucksack, webbing, rifle, helmet, the works – straight into the showers. So the rest of us did as well. If only we had pictures.
When we graduated we went our separate ways of course, and we only bumped into each other very occasionally. Fellow RCR and Airborne officers unanimously regarded Rick as a calm, cool and very collected leader, who was an excellent mentor to wet-behind-the-ears 2Lts who became his charges. He was, said one, “all about setting us up for success and taking all the precautions necessary to ensure we avoided failure.”
A service was held for Rick on January 15th in St. Thomas. In addition to his family, several retired officers (including Neil Anderson from our class) were present among the ‘packed to overflowing’ memorial ceremony. Together with Rick’s parents and brother and sister was Rick’s daughter Lauren, whom Rick raised in Edmonton. Her eulogy was bright and full of adoration, relaying several warm stories of life with a dedicated officer and devoted father. She seemed to embody all that was good about Rick, and no doubt he was hugely proud of her. Rick did a fantastic job raising such a cultured, warm and compassionate young lady.
We will always recall with deep gratitude the loyalty of those early officer cadet and army days and Rick’s unwavering faithfulness to his friends; as well as the many occasions when we personally experienced that friendship and good will. We sincerely hope that his loved ones may find in their hearts strength and peace, and that they can find some comfort in our heartfelt condolences.
Our class has made a donation to the Edmonton Military Families Support Fund, in accordance with the desires of Rick’s mother.
Rest in Peace Rick.
11035 Neil Anderson, 11036 Bill Ard, E1347 Don Denne, 11113 Dave Marshall, 11151 Pat Sweetnam
Michael Erdmann (11067) From
his wife Bev:
It is with deep sadness I announce the passing of my precious husband Michael on
November 5th, 2023. He was a man I was blessed to have as my sweetheart for
almost 50 years. He was a 2nd year cadet at Royal Roads in Victoria, B.C. on the
fateful day we met What a wonderful life we had together! Born in Wollongong,
New South Wales, Australia he grew up in Crofton, B.C. on Vancouver Island.
Living by the ocean was so much a part of him. My “island boy”. He was a gentle
soul and a very loving and kind man. He was known to be a storyteller,
mischievous and had a wonderful sense of humour. He was brilliant with a
remarkable mind, a true scholar. Whatever he put his mind to, he could achieve.
He enjoyed and loved his friends and family. His engaging nature was felt by
whomever he touched. Michael will be sorely missed, but he lives on in the
memories we will share together....
From Glen Bucholz:
Mike began experiencing really serious back problems after trying to shovel the
heavy snow last year. He was being treated for pain and it was thought that the
problem was osteoporosis. Sadly, it turned out to be much worse, and they only
found out in early October of this year that in fact it was bone marrow cancer
and he died exactly a month later. Bev did an amazing job of caring for him.
From Lee Matheson:
Very sad news. I was in Mike's flight at RRMC and I lost count of the dozens of
times he helped me academically. We served on the same frigate (HMCS MacKenzie)
during Mars-IV training, and then served together on HMCS Huron in our first
operational post. We both were diving officers on the ship as well. I feel
fortunate to have known both him and his wife Bev, and my most sincere
condolences to Bev. RIP MIke. You will be missed.
Pierre Gauvin (10835) Pierre a
passé ses trois premières années au CMR comme un membre de l’escadrille Tracy
pour ensuite aller se spécialiser en informatique à RMC. Il a par la suite
poursuivi sa carrière en communications, se retrouvant au QGDN en Recherche et
Développement.
Pierre spent his first three years at CMR as a member of Tracy Squadron and then
went on to specialize in computer science at RMC. He then continued his career
in communications, ending up at NDHQ in Research and Development.
Nepean Nomads Walking Club, and Past Master of the Chaudiere Lodge #264. Gone too soon, finally at rest on Friday, June 8, 2007 at the age of 52 years. He remained strong, feisty, and funny, throughout a difficult 2-year fight with multiple myeloma. Beloved husband and best friend of Louise Ford. Loving father of Donna Dao. Dear brother of Andre (Lyse) and Louise (Roger). Special uncle of Nanette, Lacey, Christopher, Bradley, Jim, Andreeanne, Charles and Fredric. Great uncle of Tai-Lye, Riley, Torin, Hollie and Paige. Predeceased by his parents Conrad and Berangere Gauvin. He will be sadly missed by his in-laws Mac and Betty Tigwell. Louise and Donna are grateful for the compassionate care of all the staff of Module L, the BLT team, MDCU and 5-West at the Ottawa General Hospital. A Masonic service was held in the Garden Chapel of Tubman Funeral Homes, 3440 Richmond Road, Nepean (between Bayshore & Baseline) on Saturday, June 16, 2007 at 2 p.m. Donations to the Little Angels and Bone Marrow Transplant Fund, 501 Smythe Road, Ottawa, ON, K1H 8L6 would be appreciated.
Willard Gorrisen (11074) Willard passed away February 1st, 1994.
Brad
Hall (10840) It is with deepest sorrow that we announce that Brad
passed away at the Ottawa General Hospital on Wed, Jan 31, surrounded by his
loving family.
Brad leaves behind his loving wife of 47 years, Dianne (Hardy), as well as his
adoring children, Ryan (Jennifer Thom) and Kelly (Keith Lax), and grandchildren
(Abby and Hannah, Jake and Alex). He also leaves behind his mother, Margaret
(Napier), and brother, Craig. He is predeceased by his father, Dal. Brad's
eventual internment will be in Alberton, PEI, alongside his loving in-laws, Wes
and Betty Hardy.
Brad was in the Canadian Forces for 21 years, incl. time at CMR, as an Infantry
Officer with 2 PPCLI and as an Intelligence Officer (incl. UN, Airborne, NATO
and Oka). He retired as a Major in 1991.
Brad's second career was with the Commonwealth War Graves Commission, spending
20+ years tending to graves of Commonwealth soldiers who died during the world
wars. Based mostly in Ottawa during this time, he and Dianne also lived two
years in England. He retired in 2013.
Brad prioritized shared experiences. Family vacations as well as later travel
with Dianne brought him great joy. He loved daily adventures with Dianne:
kayaks, bikes, snowshoes, skates, cross-country skis or long walks. He loved
jogging and working out, and his absence will be noted on paths throughout
Katimavik.
Brad coached many hockey teams for his children. He and Dianne have volunteered
with the Kidney Foundation, Kanata Seniors Centre and Kanata Food Cupboard.
Funeral was held at 1:00 PM on 2024-02-17 at Kelly Funeral Home and was followed
immediately by a reception.
From Brads submission on entering the
Old Brigade in 2021
I was born in Toronto and lived there, Kirkland Lake, and in Ottawa prior to
entering CMR. I was fortunate enough to have two reasonably interesting careers,
first in the Canadian Army and then as a director with the Commonwealth War
Graves Commission (CWGC). The two afforded the opportunity for me and my family
to live overseas on three separate occasions; additionally, my career with the
CWGC opened up the distinctly different privilege of travelling to many "out of
the way" destinations in Africa, the Indian subcontinent, the Far East and the
Caribbean. I retired in 2013 and live happily in Kanata with family close by.
Any who knew me will recall that I was an indifferent student as best. I still
like to tell folks that I graduated 4th in my degree program at university,
while cleverly
omitting the fact that we were only four.
My greatest lesson from CMR was an introduction to Quebec, the French language,
and an appreciation of the joys and challenges of being a Francophone, not only
in Quebec but elsewhere in Canada. I like to think that this experience made me
a better citizen.
Note by Gary Dickenson (10827): His bio writeup was very short and
typically understated. After leaving the PPCLI as a Major, he moved to the
Commonwealth War Graves Commission and eventually ended up as the Director
General of the CWGC. His funeral service was very broadly attended and was a
beautiful celebration of his life. The minister who presided over the funeral
was the former Chaplin General of the Forces, who was a dear friend of his and
took over the CWGC job after Brad retired. On a personal side, Brad was the Best
Man at my own wedding and a dear friend. He will be missed.
Gilles Harvey (10844) Gilles a
complété l’année préparatoire au CMR mais il a quitté à l’été 1972, peu avant
Chilliwack. Le 27 mai 1973, de retour chez lui à Val d’Or pour l’été après une
année de Cégep à Ste-Foy, il a été fauché par une voiture alors qu’il marchait
en bordure d’une route. Il a succombé à ses blessures peu après son arrivée à
l’hôpital. Il n’avait que 20 ans et 5 mois. Gilles était très apprécié de ses
pairs. Il sortait toujours dans les premiers aux évaluations mutuelles. C’était
une vieille âme, un sage. Il était rassembleur, empathique et à l’écoute. Ce
n’était pas un grand sportif mais il se débrouillait très bien et y mettait les
efforts qu’il fallait. Il était membre de la chorale du CMR et aimait beaucoup
les rencontres externes qui en résultaient.
Gilles completed the preparatory year at CMR but left in the summer of 1972,
shortly before Chilliwack. On May 27, 1973, while returning home to Val d'Or for
the summer after a year at the Cégep in Ste-Foy, he was hit by a car while
walking along a road. He succumbed to his injuries shortly after arriving at the
hospital. He was only 20 years old. Gilles was well liked by his peers. He
always came out on top in the mutual evaluations. He was an old soul, someone
wise beyond his age. He was a unifier, empathetic and a good listener. He was
not a great athlete, but he still did very well and put in the effort. He was a
member of the CMR choir and enjoyed the outings that resulted.
Greg Hilderman (11087) It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gregory “Greg” Hilderman of Lloydminster, AB, on Friday, May 25 2018 at the age of 63 years. Greg is survived by: his loving wife of 40 years, Diane; son, Jeff and daughter-in-law, Tasha; grandchildren, Hannah, Leo and Bailey; sister, Marsha (Jaime) Fraser; sister-in-law, Debbie (Greg) Barr; nieces and nephews, Lance, Jennifer and Derek (Alyssa); and many other friends and family. Greg was predeceased by: his daughter, Pamela; sister, Judy; and parents, Florence and Manuel. A Celebration of Life in memory of Greg will was held at the Stockade Convention Centre, Lloydminster, Saskatchewan on Friday, June 8, 2018 at 2:00 PM. Donations in memory of Greg may be made to the Lloydminster Rotary Club.
Note from Douglas Moore:
Sorry for your loss. Greg was a classmate at Royal Roads Military College in
1972 He bunked up the hallway from me. We usually brought up the rear of the
pack together, doing that regular 5km group run at Roads. I visited the grounds
in later years, and every inch of the place is beautiful - didn't seem that way
when we were on those runs struggling to breathe! Greg always regained his
humour so much quicker than me; I always admired him for that.
Joe King
(10954)
March 19, 1954 – September 11, 2024
LCdr Joseph Gregory King (ret'd) died peacefully on the morning of September
11th, 2024 at the Camp Hill Veterans’ Memorial Building in Halifax, Nova Scotia
following a twenty-year battle with Alzheimer's disease. Born March 19, 1954,
Joe, the third youngest of nine, was the son of Harold and Christina (Gillis)
King, of Taylor St., in Whitney Pier, Nova Scotia.
Joe left Cape Breton to attend Royal Military College in Kingston, Ontario,
graduating with a history degree in 1976. During his naval career he had
numerous postings, allowing him to make close friends and giving him the
opportunity to see ports of call around the world. His naval career also moved
him and family from coast to coast in Canada several times. In 1993 he deployed
for 9 months on HMCS Iroquois to the Adriatic Sea as part of a NATO naval
blockade on shipments to the former Yugoslavia. In 1994, after 22 years of
service, Joe retired from the Navy. The family remained in Cole Harbour while he
moved into private-sector management with Tecsult-Eduplus (purchasing an iconic
teal manual transmission Suzuki Swift for the new commute). After retiring for
the second time in 2013, he combined his handyman skills with an interest in
helping others by taking on a part-time role for several years at Kent Building
Supplies.
Beyond work, Joe was a devoted husband and father, supporting everyone in their
activities (notably coaching baseball and softball), while also taking on all
sorts of projects and improvements around the house. Although a picky eater and
not much of a cook, his specialty of “Stuff In The Oven” lives on to this day
through his children. He was community-minded and well-liked by neighbours, and
he took pride in property upkeep–even enticing kids to participate with
nickel-per-head dandelion bounties. Ever the Clark Griswold, he always ensured
the house had a great light display at Christmas. He was a long-time participant
in the Friday night bowling league at Beazley Lanes and played several seasons
in the Colby Village Gentlemens Slowpitch League. Most summers involved at least
one camping trip with family and friends in the good ol’ tent-trailer to parks
and campgrounds. As they were back home, the kids were permitted to roam as long
as they could hear his exceptionally loud whistle calling them for dinner.
Joe was aware of his family history of dementia and made efforts to stay active
in numerous ways. He went on daily walks (sometimes getting a bit turned around)
for many years. He was a few years too early for a Fitbit, but loved his
pedometer, closely tracking and frequently discussing his much more than 10,000
daily steps. Unfortunately dementia took over in the last few years and
prevented Joe and Shirley from living the life they wanted. Although it created
a challenging road to walk for family and friends, the disease could never take
Joe’s kindness or his sense of humour, which remained until the end.
Joe leaves behind his loving wife of 46 years, Shirley (Redel); children Greg
(Emily Sangster) of Camrose AB, Jennifer Leslie (Brennan) of Cole Harbour, and
Stewart of Halifax, as well as grandchildren Zaiden, Robin, and Ivy. Also
surviving are brothers Harold, Bob, Bernie, and Paul, and sister Joan Ouellette,
as well as many cousins, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his mother,
Christina; father, Harold; sisters Margie and Patricia, and brother Reg.
As per Joe’s wishes, there will be no formal service following cremation, just a
private family celebration of life. Joe’s family would like to thank the staff
at the Camp Hill Veterans’ Memorial Building for their care of Joe during his
time as a resident. In lieu of flowers, a donation to the Alzheimer Society of
Canada, the Camp Hill Veterans’ Memorial Garden Fund through the QEII
Foundation, or a charity that is important to you is appreciated.
Thomas Howe
(10954)
March 5, 1953 – May 23, 2023
Thomas passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday May 23, 2023; with the love of
his life at his side.
Thomas will be cherished as beloved husband to Doina Howe, loving father of
Vicky Howe and her partner Brian Potter, Kevin Howe and his wife Dianna, and his
step-daughter Nicole Nedescu and her partner Allex Raymundo. Remembered as a
dear grandfather to Isaac Howe and Valeria Nedescu-Raymundo. Irreplaceable
brother to Linda Corlette, Judith-Anne Pittarelli and her husband Vince, and
Bruce Howe and his wife Charlene.
Thomas will be remembered as a compassionate brilliant mind that will live on
through all those he touched.
Friends greeted the family on Saturday May 27, 2023 at McKersie & Early Funeral
Home, 114 Main St. E., Milton. The funeral service began in the funeral chapel
at 2p.m.
Private cremation followed. Interment of the cremated remains will take place at
Assumption Catholic Cemetery in Mississauga at a later date.
Chuck Lefko (11106) CHARLES BARRY LEFKO May 4, 1954 - September 23, 2017 It is with profound sadness that we announce the sudden passing of our beloved son, brother, husband, father and Gigi. Chuck loved life and did a lot of living in his 63 years. He travelled around the world as a young man and later in life took trips with his family. Most recently, spending time with his daughter Rhea and her family in Mexico, and hiking the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu in Peru with his son Brock and brother-in-law John. He grew up as a country boy in Cooks Creek. He enjoyed his Friday old guy motorcycle rides, camping with his wife, his annual Lefko fishing trip and decades of hunting with his dear friend Henry Payment.
Chuck will be forever missed by his loving wife of 33 years, Bev; his daughter Rhea (Mike); his son Brock; the light of his life, granddaughter Alice; parents, Tony and Nellie Lefko; sisters, Susan (Ross) and Linda; brother Mark (Kathleen); along with nieces and nephews; mother-in-law Sonia Sikomas; and extended family. A private family service has taken place. Thank you to our family, friends and neighbours for their kindness. We would like to acknowledge the service of the Winnipeg Fire Paramedic Service. Please join Chuck in his belief and sign your organ donation card and respect those with hearing impairment.
Karmin McKay (10970) 1953-2023
- From his daughter Michelle:
The man that redefined the word "Hero".
He was the smartest, corkiest, loud, adventurous, risk taker of a man I knew.
He was straight up military and tough as nails! He loved to laugh and laughed
like a hyena which landed him that nickname from his run club.
He fought sharks and jumped out of airplanes but through all the wild, was a
true gentle man!
He called me Miss Universe to all of his friends and was always so incredibly
proud. Some of the best times I had with him were my summers in Calgary during
the stampede.
His heart was for the homeless or for anyone in need and would give the shirt
off his back if that's what it took to keep somebody warm. Especially the
indigenous kids. He would stock them up with food clothes, toys, anything to
make their lives better and bring a smile to their faces.
He was so creative and good with his hands. He created intricate jewelry from
scratch for all of our wedding party so many more.
He would send our kids boxes of crafts, sticker books, toys, etc. every single
year and it was just so exciting for them to see all of the random stuff.
Not too long ago, he sent me a message explaining that he had wrote an article
about something that I had said to him that changed his life for the best, and
that the article was soon going to be published. I hope one day I can share it
with the world, just as he would have wanted.
The hardest thing we have to do in our lives is to say goodbye to our loved
ones. It's never fair when they are taking away too soon. So abrupt, so
unexpected.
But the hero has left his mark in this world and has a lot more work to do from
above.
The boys and I love and miss you deeply! Until we meet again, RIP Dad!
Note from his daughter Michelle:
Happy Birthday Dad - You would of been 70 years old, but truly 40 at heart. The
quirkiness never left your soul so I know you’re up there cracking jokes,
fishing constantly and having the time of your life doing all the things you’ve
ever wanted to do. Today, we will find all the little things to do down here to
celebrate you and know that you will be looking down and celebrating with us. We
miss you immensely and wish you the happiest birthday up there. Love you, RIP
Link to an article Karmin wrote for LinkedIn in 2022 called
What is Life?
Terry McKenzie (11121) Captain Terrance Allan McKenzie flew his CF-5 Freedom Fighter 116816 into a frozen lake during a descending turn 80 miles from CFB Cold Lake on 7 March 1983.
Born:
March 5, 1953
Camrose, Alberta
Enlistment:
August 10, 1972
Edmonton, Alberta
Cemetery:
CAMROSE (VALLEYVIEW) CEMETERY
Alberta, Canada
Grave Reference:
South-Northwest Quarter Plot 63G
Husband of Jeanne Carmine (nee Pitre) McKenzie and father of Kimberly of
Camrose, Alberta.
Commemorated on Page 177 of the In the Service of Canada (1947 - 2014) Book of
Remembrance.
His memorial is displayed in the Peace Tower and on
this Veterans Affairs website.
Dale McLaughlin
(10972)
After
graduation and pilot training,
Dale McLaughlin
later became a highly respected and well liked Squadron Commander at the
College. Dale was tragically killed in an automobile accident while serving at
Trenton on 1 June 1986. Dale was the fastest short
distance runner in our Class of 1976. Here are the
results from the March 1975 OUAA
Indoor Track Championships where Dale advanced to the Semi-Final in the 50m and
ran a 6.2 second sprint.
Don Oxley
(10984) The
Ox hailed from Brantford, ON and entered RMC in August 1972. Don passed away
peacefully at home on January 5, 1993 after a short but heroic battle with lung
cancer. Born March 15, 1954 Don grew up in Brantford, Ontario where his parents
had settled after World War II. Don had a wonderful childhood with devoted and
caring parents, an older brother David, and many friends. He happily
participated in a variety of sports, including being on his high school
basketball team and achieving his bronze medallion in swimming. He participated
in the local naval cadet corps and was excited to enter RMC in the fall of 1972.
His four years at RMC were formative and rewarding. He worked hard at his
academics, receiving a Bachelor of Arts degree with a Major in History. At RMC,
like all cadets, he learned even more of the values of hard work, dedication,
discipline, devotion to duty, and how to laugh at the best and even the worst of
times. The Ox, as he was known, was a great friend, who always had your back and
who always had a bright smile, kind word, and helping hand for others. His calm
demeanor under pressure and his positive attitude held him in good stead to
effectively tackle the rigors of college life. At RMC Don participated in the
RMC choir, and was production editor for the college newspaper The Arch. Don was
known throughout the college for his great love of music, especially the
Beatles. He had an extensive record collection and it has been said he could
have won any air guitar contest. He embraced the motto ‘Truth, Duty,Valour’ in
all aspects of his personal and professional life. After RMC graduation in June
1976 Don traveled to Esquimalt to complete his MARS IV training, and then went
on to Halifax to complete his Bonaventure course and to become MOC qualified.
Following this training Don returned to Victoria, BC and was posted to ships
HMCS Saskatchewan and Qu’Appelle from 1977-1980. In 1977 Don met Suszanne, a
west coast girl, who he referred to as the love of his life. She says he ‘swept
her off her feet’ with his smile, debonair demeanor, dashing uniform and kind
and thoughtful manners! They became a fast team, but this career and Suszanne’s
university studies had them located in different cities for a number of years.
Don decided in 1979 that he would like to reclassify from MARS to
Administration. He completed the necessary course work and was then posted in
1980 to CFS Shelburne, Nova Scotia where he enjoyed his first two year tour as a
Base Admin Officer. Don and Suszanne were married in Victoria in July of 1982
and they began their married life with Don’s new posting as the Admin Officer at
CFS Sioux Lookout - a small radar station in Northern Ontario. A great
initiation to married life that was – along with initiation to small town living
and the cold winters of northern Ontario! In 1983 Don was posted on a year-long
French course back to Esquimalt, so a ping pong game of moving from coast to
coast began. In 1984 Don and Suszanne were posted again, this time to a two year
posting as the Admin Officer for Maritime Air Group in Halifax, Nova Scotia.
After getting their feet wet as east coasters, in 1986 relocation was once again
the name of the game as Don was posted as Base Admin Officer for CFB Cold Lake.
1987 was the year Don was promoted to the rank of Major, and with the new
promotion came the challenges of a new job as Base Services Officer with another
move to be stationed at CFB Edmonton. It was in Edmonton that Don and Suszanne
welcomed their first child, Stephen (October 1988). In 1990 Don was posted back
to the west coast to what was to be his final posting, as Aide de Camp for Rear
Admirals Cairns and Waller at CFB Esquimalt. In November of 1990 Don and
Suszanne were blessed and happy to announce the safe arrival of their second
child, a daughter, Robyn Cathleen. Throughout his life Don had many
interests. Music was very important to him, and he collected all genres of
records and knew all the lyrics to most songs and much trivia about bands and
singers. He also had an extensive comic book collection from the 1950s and
1960s. Don liked completing projects in and outside his home and most of all
simply spending time with his family. He enjoyed running as a form of exercise,
and as well liked a good golf game whenever there was an opportunity. It’s fair
to say he was pretty good at any sport he tried. The Olympics were always a big
event in his home – he, along with his family, cheered every Canadian in every
event! Throughout his professional life over the years Don supported numerous
cadet corps and was very involved with United Way fund raising. He was a member
of the United Church of Canada. Don was physically fit and lived a healthy life
style so there is no understanding regarding why he received the tragic
diagnosis of terminal lung cancer. He was diagnosed in October 1992 and a short
two months later he passed away January 1993. He fought bravely, never
complained, and was strengthened by the love and support of the many people who
came to his side during his final days. He died peacefully at home on January 5,
1993, and he is still missed every day by his wife Suszanne and children Stephen
and Robyn.
Robert Pelletier
(11196) Robert
“Bob” Pelletier, un p’tit gars d’Arvida, parmi tant d’autres, entre au CMR en
1972, comme BA. Il joint l’escadrille Hudson (la 4) et se retrouve room mate
avec ti-Marc! Un élof sérieux et calme, parfois gêné, il entreprend ses études
en génie mécanique avec ardeur. On voit ici un 3e année Pelletier au RMC en
grande discussion avec le professeur J. Dolphin.
Au sport, il choisit le club de karaté au CMR où il développe d’excellents
réflexes et une grande concentration. En bonne condition physique, il accède au
club des 400 dès sa première année et le demeure durant tout son séjour au CMC.
In 1974, he proceeded to RMC Kingston, to complete the Mechanical Engineering
program, as a member of Frontenac Squadron. The transition was somewhat
difficult given his French Canadian roots. But “Bob” persisted nevertheless, in
all of his college endeavors, and during his second language training during the
summer. Unfortunately, he did not succeed in his 3rd year final exam term, and
was academically released in the summer of 1975.
Bob est retourné à la vie civile animé d’un vibrant goût d’aventure. Sans
attendre, il se procure une moto, et passe un été à explorer les routes du
Québec. En septembre 1975, il s’inscrit à l’Université Laval à Québec pour
compléter ses études. Tragiquement, un an plus tard, le 6 juillet 1976, il
succombe à un accident mortel alors qu’il aide des amis avec la réfection d’une
toiture. Il est inhumé dans le lot familial au cimetière Belmont, à Québec où il
repose aux cotés de ses parents. Il est désolant de constater que sa famille fut
lourdement éprouvée en l’an 1976, sa maman étant aussi décédée peu de temps
après lui.
Robert était un gars pas comme les autres. Un chic type, il n’avait aucune
rancune envers personne. He did not have a bad or angry bone in his body, a real
team player! Toujours désireux d’apprendre, il était une âme affamée de
curiosité. On se souvient d’ailleurs de sa passion pour les ovni, pour lesquels
il avait imaginé le mode de propulsion, en bon ingénieur mécanique qu’il était.
Très passionné, il ne se lassait pas de nous « brûler les oreilles » avec ses
théories sur le transport interspatial!
Un bon camarade qui a vécu une vie trop courte mais remplie d’expériences et de
belles aventures. On se souvient de lui avec un sourire! Bob, rest in peace!
Préparé par Richard Payne (Arvida & CMR Hudson), Martin Caron (Arvida) et Marc
Grondin (CMR Hudson & génie mécanique au RMC).
Richard Payne
(10869) Navy Captain Richard (Rick) Payne departed the fix and sailed
over the horizon on the 5th of June 2022, having enjoyed some 24 733 days on
this particular mission. He was born and raised in Arvida, Quebec, a utopian
community of French and English and Polish neighbourhoods where folks lived
and worked and played together, watched "La Soirée du Hockey" on Saturday
nights, and talked about the game at church on Sunday mornings. He rose to
pee wee level in hockey and baseball, was a Boy Scout and after school
gymnast, and won a gold medal in high school in the high jump event. Studied
Latin in high school, and was accepted into dentistry at McGill and Queen's,
but realizing the non-compatibility of his name brand, chose the path of a
military career instead, at College Militaire Royale de St-Jean, then RMC
Kingston. Became a Naval Officer, where he served for 37 years. Husband to
Annette, a Navy nurse he met and fell in love with whilst on training in
England. Later, when Rachelle was born, he assumed the duties of ballet Dad.
In recent years, as a widower, he rediscovered his passion for drumming, and
was practicing hard at perfecting his double rolls, paraddidles, and drum
fills. Holding drumsticks was a natural state for him, and gave him a
calming effect. Other pastimes included ice skating, writing poetry, walks
on beaches, rediscovering the bustop dance steps, and flying his kite,
feeling the gentle tug of God. He leaves behind his favourite daughter
Rachelle, his sisters Valerie (Don) and Jennifer (Michel), nephew Andrew,
nieces Stephanie, Jenna, Mélissa et Émilie, and many friends and shipmates.
He has rejoined his beloved wife Annette, his little sister Elizabeth, and
his Mom and Dad. He is looking forward to throwing catch again with his dad,
like in his favourite movie "Field of Dreams", and to having a beer with his
grand dad, a veteran of the Great War, whom he never knew. oseph Richard
Steven Payne had a good life, quite ordinary, but to him, quite
extraordinary in its blessings. Please join Richard’s family for a visitation on July 1, 2022 from 3-7pm in J.A. Snow Funeral Home, 339 Lacewood Drive, Halifax. Richard’s Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday July 2, 2022 at 11am in the Cathedral Church of All Saints, 1330 Cathedral Lane, Halifax. A reception will follow at 12:30 at 1343 Hollis St.. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
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John Poltz (10991) John completed his first year at RMC as well as BOTC before deciding to assume the challenges of Civy Street. He persued a degree in Chemical Engineering at U of T, but unfortunately was not able to test his skills. John Stefan George Poltz died at Oshawa General Hospital Thursday, April I, 1976. He lived at 169 Baldwin Crt. Oshawa. Born April 3, 1953 in Markdale, ON, he was a son of Mr. and Mrs John Poltz of Oshawa. He attended St. Gertrude's School, St. Francis Senior School, and Donovan Collegiate, Oshawa. He attended Royal Military College for one year, and for the past three years attended the University of Toronto and was to graduate in June in 1976. He was a member of St. Gertrude's Roman Catholic Church where he was a choir member. He was a member of the Oshawa Concordia Pops and was a former of the Oshawa Symphony. He is survived by his parents and grandparents. Requiem Mass was celebrated in St. Gertrude's Church with interment in Resurrection Cemetery. Father Bernard officiated, and Parish prayers were recited. Donations to the Canadian Cancer Society, or to the charity of your choice will be gratefully acknowledged. |
Johnson Albert Rose (11140) John passed
away suddenly near his home in Invermere, B.C. on June 1, 2010.
He was predeceased by his father, Herbert Rose in 1995.
John will be sadly missed by his wife Denise (Lemaster) Rose, sons Trevor and
James, mother Edith, brothers Paul (Denise) Rose, Kevin Rose and Derek (Joan)
Rose, nephews Glen, Wesley and Spencer, Eric and Joel and his many other family
members and friends.
Johnson was born in Saskatoon, Sask. on May 17, 1954 and was raised in
Cranbrook, B.C. where he graduated from Mt. Baker in 1972. Johnson graduated
from RMC in 1976 with a BSc., went on to UBC where he attained a B.A. Psychology
in 1979 and his Doctorate in Medicine in 1983. After an internship in Regina,
Johnson returned to Cranbrook and established a practice in 1990. The family
moved to Invermere in 2002 where Johnson continued to practice medicine. His
great joys in life were his family, his passion for medicine, and his love of
sports, especially hockey, skiing and golf.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Arthritis Society, B.C. and
Yukon Division.
Bill Rutledge
(10996) Bill passed away
peacefully surrounded by his family on June 17 2020 after living with ALS for
the last ten years. Bill was born in Calgary and grew up there until the family
moved to Montreal when he was ten. He was a proud RMC alumnus (Engineering
Physics) before receiving a Master’s degree at the University of Alberta
(Electrical Engineering). He spent his career in Edmonton, eventually becoming
the Director of Clinical Engineering for Edmonton’s hospitals.
Bill led a busy life with his wife Joan and their four children, Steven (Jen),
David (Ozlem), Beth (Keith), and John (Brittany). Bill had many loves and
interests including playing and coaching soccer, hiking, skiing, and taking
family road trips. He also enjoyed the arts including the Folk Festival, opera,
symphony, and live theatre. Throughout his life, Bill was brilliant and loved to
be a mentor, teacher and source of support for numerous family members and
friends.
Bill developed ALS in 2010 but found meaning in his life every day. He developed
deep friendships with his caregivers, some of whom were part of his family for
years.
Bill’s parents Emma and Stanley, brothers Bob (Kitty) and Jim (Pam) as well as
Judy Watling and Les Watling (Allison) also mourn his passing.
A private graveside ceremony was held on Wednesday, June 24. A recorded version
of the funeral can be viewed at:
https://bit.ly/2BBktYD.
There will be a Celebration of Life for his friends and family when it is safe
to do so. Donations in Bill’s memory can be made to the ALS Society or to a
charity of one’s choice.
Paul Sunderland (10889)
It is with heavy hearts we announce the passing of Paul Sunderland on Friday, August 5, 2022, at the age of 68. He is survived by his loving wife of 46 years, Candace (nee Clarke), and their three children Adrian (Lauren), Erin (Ryan), and Brad (Jason). He will be sorely missed by his beloved grandchildren Clark and Cadence. He leaves behind his mother Margaret, and three siblings Mel, Terry (Kim), and Janice (Brian).
Paul was a bright, active, and social person throughout his life. He was a proud graduate of the Royal Military College, class of 1976, in the rank of Lieutenant, earning his Bachelor of Engineering degree. He had a successful and rewarding career, largely as an executive in telecommunications and software development.
Paul was an avid golfer, who cherished many golf trips with friends, particularly playing St. Andrews in Scotland. He was a member of the Oakville Curling Club, playing in several leagues. He enjoyed the game immensely, including the strategy and comradery with fellow curlers. As a loving husband, Paul gave Candace ballroom dance lessons as a gift, which turned into a 14-year adventure as ballroom dancers. They participated in many competitions, most notably in New York City. He was a man of many talents. He loved spending time with his family at the cottage, Cricklewood. He enjoyed boating, fishing off the dock, and relaxing at the sandy beach. Paul was a natural problem solver, taking on all of life’s challenges with a positive attitude. He was known for his witty sense of humour, loving nature, and logical approach. He will be missed greatly by all who knew him.
A public visitation was held on August 24, 2022 at Kopriva Taylor Community Funeral Home, 64 Lakeshore Road West in Oakville. A service was at the Glen Abbey United Church Friday September 9, 2022.
In lieu of flowers, donations to the Ian Anderson House would be appreciated.
Anthony Tasker (11010)
In loving memory of our dad, Anthony “Tony” James Tasker, who passed away on
April 12th, 2023. He was the devoted husband of Karen and loving father of Peter
(Senecca), Matthew (Lane), and Tristan (Kelly), and proud grandfather of Abi,
CJ, Charlie, Brynn, Nohl, and Mara. He will be deeply missed by all who knew
him.
Born in Quebec City to Fred and Betty on July
10, 1954. Tony, along with his siblings, Jill and Geoff, grew up in different
parts of Quebec and Northern Ontario, but it was Pictou, Nova Scotia that he
claimed as his hometown. A true
maritimer at heart, Tony served in the Royal Canadian Navy after attending the
Royal Military College in Kingston, Ontario. He took those invaluable learned
skills and applied them to civilian life, working in the telecom industry for
25+ years. His drive and determination eventually lead to Tony starting his own
small business, where his kindness and reputation preceded him.
One of the kindest souls on this planet, Tony was a gentle, giving man
who worked tirelessly to ensure that his family had everything they needed. He
faced every challenge in life with admirable strength and courage.
His love for his family was deep. There are not enough words to describe
the love that we all have for Tony and the gap his passing leaves will not soon
be filled. Our family would like
to express our deepest gratitude to the staff at the Ottawa General Hospital and
Elisabeth Bruyère Hospital for their compassionate care in dad’s last days.
A Graveside Service for Anthony was held at Capital Funeral Home and
Cemetery on Friday April 21, 2023 at 2 pm., 3700 Prince of Wales Dr. Nepean ON
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Brian George Leonard Taylor
(11152) December 16, 1953 - May 6, 2024 On 6 May 2024, Brian passed
away peacefully at age 70 due to cancer, in the presence of loved ones at
the Aitken Hospice in Courtenay. He is survived by his wife Gwyneth,
children Jill (Rob) and Mark (Stephanie) of whom he was very proud, mother
Helen, sisters Sharon (Hugh), Gayle (Ray) and Sue (Ron) and many nieces,
nephews and cousins. He loved you all. Born in Winnipeg to Robert and Helen Taylor, Brian’s early life in a military family shaped him into the man he would become. His father’s many postings within Canada, to Edwards AFB in California and to England were all valuable learning experiences. His family camped across our country sparking Brian’s love of the outdoors and fishing. A trip through the Rockies was the start of his love for the west coast. His father’s ability to fix and build things was passed on to Brian, sometimes to the annoyance of his mother when he disassembled household appliances so he could learn how to rebuild them. He also learnt how to rebuild old cars which culminated years later with the restoration of a Jaguar E-type including converting it to a left-hand drive. Later, Brian would follow in his father’s footsteps and join the military. Brian attended both military colleges, his favourite being Royal Roads in Victoria. There he played rep hockey and soccer, was the Band Master for the Marching Band, played saxophone in the Stage Band, squeezed in some study time, and later graduated from Royal Military College in Kingston as an engineer. Real life then kicked in and Brian became a fighter pilot. It was a proud moment when his father, a former fighter pilot, pinned his wings on. Career highlights were flying the CF101 Voodoo on 409 AW(F) Sqn in Comox and the F4M Phantom on 29(F) Sqn RAF Coningsby England. Friends who flew with him described him as an ace pilot, a mentor, and a role model. When Brian retired, he left with countless exciting memories and many lifelong friends. No one loved an adventure and a challenge more than Brian. He was always thinking (scheming) about the next one. First up after his military career was owning an RV Park and sport fishing business in the Comox Valley with friends, and its later development into residential condominiums. Then it was building and renovating houses, including our multi-generational home in Comox. For several years he enjoyed moose and elk hunting trips, primarily for the camaraderie, time spent in the great outdoors and the opportunity to explore remote areas. Highlights were a thrilling (sometimes heart-stopping) three week jet boat trip up the Kechika and Muskwa Rivers in northern B.C., a ten day guided horseback trip in the Rocky Mountains and a Vancouver Island elk hunt in the Brooks Peninsula area using kayaks (an unsuccessful, crazy idea with very close bear encounters never to be repeated). In 2013, Brian’s dream of owning a waterfront fish shack in Ucluelet came true (thanks to his very understanding wife). It was in worse than terrible shape, almost condemned, which made it the perfect challenge and fit for Brian’s tenacity, problem solving and building skills. Over several years, he, with a friend assisting, rebuilt it completely. Of course there was always time for fishing along the way. This was Brian’s happy place, be it on the water catching the big one or sitting on the deck watching the sun come up. This is where his ashes will be scattered. Brian lived his life to the fullest, and as his brother-in-law said, he did it his way with a little course correction now and then from his wife. We will remember him always, not just for his many talents and intellect, but also for his character, humour, wisdom, and the mischievous twinkle in his beautiful blue eyes. Rest in peace Brian. We hope you are out fishing with your father and nephew. A huge thank-you to our families and friends, near and far, for your support and love (and stealthy food drop-offs) over the past few months. We also wish to thank our medical system personnel for their tremendous support, including our family doctor, B.C. Ambulance, Comox Valley Hospital, Home Support, the Aitken Hospice, and our MAiD doctor. We will be eternally grateful for the wonderful, compassionate care provided at the Hospice. There will be no formal service at Brian’s request. An informal gathering will be held at a later date. If you wish to make a donation in memory of Brian, please consider the Cancer Society or your local Hospice. |
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Richard Keith Taylor (11154) June 20, 1954 June 19, 2006 Captain(N) Richard Keith Taylor passed away, much too soon, on June 19th, 2006 at 7:31pm from his 34 month battle with brain cancer. He was four and half hours shy of his 52nd birthday. Family gathered at his bedside as he left this world with a joyous smile upon his face. His passing was without pain or discomfort and was peaceful in every sense of the word. It has been an amazing journey over these last several years. There were moments of shed tears and immense pain, but his determination and will to survive was nothing less than inspirational. Richard never wavered in his fight against cancer. He fought his battle like any astounding Naval Officer, with dignity and perseverance. Hope for a cure motivated Richard's struggle to survive. Richard devoted 32 years of his life to the Canadian Forces and he was very proud to wear the Navy uniform. He was a loving and charismatic husband, father, son, brother, friend and human being. His sense of humour and spirit lives on in the memories of the people who knew and loved him. You do not have to fight anymore dad. We all love you and miss you. Till we see you again. Richard is predeceased by his mother, Margaret Taylor (1999) and his father in-law John Tapp (2000). He is survived by: his father, Ronald (Fud), sister, Wendy (Naggy), brother, David, loving and devoted wife, Patricia, sons Ronald (26) and Robert (22), daughter, Melanie (24), mother-in-law, Josephine Tapp, sisters-in-law: Shirley, Caroline (Paul), Linda, Eileen (Gordon) and Judy. A special thank you to family and friends, Dr. Ross and staff at CDU1, Dr. Atwell, Dr. Pai, Dr. Sun, Dr. Yam, Wanda, Yvonne, Donna, Maggie, Richard, Ian, Dave, Peter, Hospice Staff, WeCare Nurses, Community Home Care Nurses, family and dear friends. All of you have made this journey for Richard and his family a little less painful. You have all honoured his wishes and his integrity. A Full Military Funeral was held at CFB Esquimalt, drill hall, on June 24th, 2006 at 10:00 am followed by interment at Veterans Commentary (God's Acre). A reception was then held at the Wardroom. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Brain Cancer Research Foundation. We imagine you cancer free, running through fields of golden yellow. We can imagine you cancer free, dancing on a sandy beach and you are a lucky fellow. |
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Daniel Trayling Dan passed away in Surrey on Friday, June 2, 2006 at the age of 52. He was a gentle, artistic soul who will be greatly missed by his family and friends. No service by request. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of your choice. "This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you". |
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Bertin Tremblay (10893) Bertin, surnommé «Tintin» est
arrivé au CMR du Lac Saint-Jean (Alma) et il était très fier de ses
origines. Très sportif de nature, il a profité de toutes les occasions pour
faire du sport et surtout jouer au hockey. Cette passion pour les sports est
d’ailleurs ce qui l’a mené à son poste d’officier des sports de l’escadron
Wolfe à RMC en 4e année. Il a dû parler en bien de son séjour aux collèges
puisque son frère Richard l’a suivi dans ce parcours. Bertin a terminé ses études en génie électrique au RMC et il s’est très bien acquitté d’un cours rendu encore plus difficile pour lui puisque tout se passait en anglais. Pendant ses cinq années au collège, Bertin s’est distingué par son sérieux et sa ténacité au travail. Il était reconnu comme un type taquin mais très loyal à l’égard de ses confrères. C’est pendant son passage à Kingston qu’il a rencontré sa future épouse Debi Borenko de Napanee. Ils ont eu trois enfants ensemble, Philippe, Stéphanie and Danielle. La famille était animée par un sentiment profond de charité chrétienne. Après une intéressante carrière comme officier des communications, Bertin a quitté les Forces canadiennes en 1993 et il s’est joint à la compagnie Valcom à Ottawa.
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Robert Weisman (10897)
Robert Morris Louis Weisman, known as Bob (Rob) to his family and friends,
passed away on March 26, 2024. He is survived by his wife of 45 years,
Brenda, his three children, Marina (Kyle) Van Koughnett, Sean (Megan)
Weisman, and Sheena (Martin) Myers, six grandchildren, and his sister,
Vivian (Bob) Testa alongside many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by
his parents, Fred Weisman and Sophia Hoy-Frank. Bob was born on October 15,
1954, in Montreal, Canada, where he grew up as an active curious child, who
enjoyed scouting, cadets, and soccer. He was a lifelong student with a
passion for militaryhistory, the arts, culture, and languages; he spoke
three fluently (English, French and Dutch) alongside studies in German and
Latin. He aspired to be a history student and teacher, but life’s
circumstances conspired otherwise leading him to pursue Civil engineering
first at CMR (Collège Militaire Royale) and finishing his studies at RMC
(Royal Military College) in Kingston Ontario. It was during his studies at
RMC that Bob met his future wife and life-long love, Brenda, who was
studying at Queen's University. Brenda and Bob married in 1978 and moved
throughout Eastern Canada in support of his many roles in the armed forces
where he served as a construction engineer, squadron commander, decision
support researcher, and a command & control portfolio manager. Bob was a
very involved and loving father - during this time his most cherished role
was as a dad to their three children. Through his travels with the Military, Bob was first introduced to and fell
in love with the Canadian North, building some of the first airfields in
Spence Bay (Taloyoak, Nunavut) and collecting Inuit art. During his time in
the Military, Bob completed a master's degree in computer science in 1992
and taught at RMC where he found a passion for teaching. After completing
his Masters, Bob was posted to Ottawa where he thoroughly enjoyed all that
the National Capital region had to offer, relishing his time at the various
museums, festivals, and National Monuments. In 1999, after 27 years of
service, in the Canadian Military, Bob retired with the rank of Major. After
his retirement from the Military, Bob continued work as a consultant,
enterprise architecture lead, and chief information architect as well as
launching his own company, Build The Vision. He was a leader and innovator
in the fields of planning, enterprise architecture, and knowledge management
with major contributions to the TOGAF standard, an open methodology for
enterprise architecture. While in Ottawa, Bob continued his love of education, obtaining his PhD in digital transformation and innovation from the University of Ottawa in 2019, where he subsequently taught as a part-time professor and an engineer in residence until his passing. Bob was a lifelong learner, mentor, and a caring person. He loved to travel, visit museums, read books, and had a special fondness for Star Wars and Star Trek which he passed on to his children. He cherished his family and his pets (even though he pretended to dislike animals) and was a continuous source of spontaneity and mischievousness, especially when it came to his grandchildren. Ever the devoted husband, father, and Opa he enjoyed taking his children and grandchildren on outings to the zoo, aquarium, Wye Marsh, and the Rideau Canal, just to name a few. The kids in the family were frequently surprised with kinder eggs, and his wife with flowers, just because! Bob sought to teach his children and grandchildren valuable lessons, skills, share his stories, and support them in their dreams and goals. Everyone who knew Bob felt his strong sense of moral duty and a desire to make a positive difference in the world. He lived a life of service, learning, and adventure but his family was always the most important part of his life. He made them laugh with his jokes and pranks. He hugged them, kissed them, and told them he loved them regularly. He will be dearly missed, but we carry him forward in our hearts and remember him fondly.
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Michael Whalen (11162)
WHALEN, Michael James Suddenly on February 21st, 2005. Son of Robert Whalen
and Pearl Smith. Beloved husband of Lina. Brother of Catherine (Dale
Saunders). Godfather of Olivia, Stephanie and Johanne. He will also be
missed by his sisters-in-law: Diane (Leon Simard), Sylvie (Denis Guay),
Mireille (Roger Lapointe) and Suzanne; his brothers-in-law: Serge (Lise
Ostigny), Yves and Gilles (Diane Truchon), and by many nephews, nieces and
friends. Predeceased by his sister Karen Anne (Jim Billard); his brother
Douglas John and by his brother-in-law Jean Tremblay. Visitation was at
Funerarium Beauchamp, Saturday, February 26, 2005. A service with ashes was
held the same day at 1 p.m. in St-Franois de Sales church, 799 Jacques
Cartier, Gatineau. In memory of Michael, donations to the Canadian Cancer
Society would be greatly appreciated.
Mike was born in PEI in a family of four siblings. He decided to follow in
his mother’s footsteps, Mrs Pearl Smith, who enlisted in the Royal Canadian
Air Force (Women's Division) in 1943 and served until 1945. Mike enrolled at
Royal Roads in 1972 and transferred to CMR where he was inserted (as best as
possible due to his height at 6’ 10’’) into 3 Squadron. He had special
everything such as uniforms, bed and even FNC1. Mike endeavored to
concentrate mainly on his Physics Honors studies. He wanted to become a
Military Engineer which he successfully achieved upon graduation. Mike was
known as a quiet, warm, studious guy but not very sportive. He learned
French and found the love of his life in the person of Lina Lévesque. He was
retired by 1992 and was a Research Programmer working for Arthur Henderson
Co. He later joined ‘Thoughtworks’, an international consulting firm in IT
solutions.
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Brian Wesley White
(11028) Brian, age 66, of
New Glasgow, born in Truro, died January 7, 2021 at home after a brief
illness. He entered RMC in Aug 1972 and was roommates with Paul Sunderland
in the first term and Mick Audy second term. He did find the physical side
of his training the hardest. He decided to leave RMC following first year.
Survived by wife Deborah (Richards), son Geoffrey, daughter Shannon (Robert)
Donald, mother Audrey, mother-in-law Jean Shaw, brother Wray (Gwen),
brother-in-law Darrell (Ruth) Richards, grandsons James and Joseph, aunts,
uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, grand-nieces and grand-nephews.
Predeceased by father Kenneth, father-in-law Alvin Richards, brother Dale
(Tammy), several aunts and uncles. There will be no visitation or funeral.
Private burial at a later date. Brian's life exemplified both the Cub Scout
motto Do Your Best and the Rotary motto Service Above Self. Trained as a
Chartered Accountant, he worked in public accounting, government accounting
(municipal and NSHA), hospitality management and as a university instructor,
and served in various positions with the Chamber of Commerce, Rotary and
United Way. He was also skilled with a hammer and power tools, and completed
many major projects at home and elsewhere. He excelled at finding creative
solutions for problems, believed in making fact-based decisions, and held
himself to the highest ethical standards. Both publicly and privately he was
kind, fair and respectful to all. If you wish to honour his life and
contributions, please make a donation to a charity of your choice or do
something good for someone in need. Many thanks to the palliative care,
chemo and VON teams, and to family, friends, co-workers and neighbours for
their kindness and support.
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David Wilson (11029) Dave passed away 22 Nov 1996 afer a mess dinner while serving in Petawawa. |
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John Wroe (10901)
John Wroe was born in Milford Bay, Ontario. He then went to CMR in
Saint-Jean where he completed the Preparatory year and did quite well
academically while becoming a close friend to many fellow officer-cadets. He
was very good in math and helped others with calculus! However, he decided
on a different career path and left the military while on Basic Officer
Training in Chilliwack. John then attended Canadore College in North
Bay where he studied journalism. He worked at Timmins Daily Press, Northern
Daily News, Barrie Examiner, North Bay Sun as editor, Innisfil Scope
newspaper as general manager, and then returned to the Northern Daily News
as New Liskeard bureau chief. He became the executive assistant for the
Timiskaming MPP David Ramsay. John then went to work for Grant Forest
Products as communications director, after which he began a five-year
contract as Temagami-Latchford economic development officer.
He enjoyed following motor racing and was involved for a few years with the
Canadian Race Communications Association. He enjoyed motorcycling, sailing,
spending time at the family cabin, and walking with his dog, Kyro. He was a
member of the Royal Canadian Legion and was very proud of his father’s role
in World War II as a sergeant and as one of the first to step on shore at
Normandy on D-Day. John was an avid student of World War II history.
John passed away on 30 July 2013 after a brief illness with cancer and is
survived by his wife Darlene and his daughter Becky.
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